Frequently Asked Questions and Additional Information
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What is a date with you like?
I've been told that I'm a very "involved and active listener." I love it when people talk about themselves and their interests! I love seeing the light behind peoples eyes when they are comfortable and excited. Expect for me to coax this state from you. I am flirty, thoughtful (full of thought), and delicate with a slight punch. I have a flirtatious approach with life, if that makes sense. I like to smile, and I love a good laugh. You will see this things often! I am physically attentive, from the way I am physically positioned to the point of physically touching you. I am an air sign, so I do look like I have on my thinking cap and "day-dreamers face" on a consistent basis. I give light touches until a firm one is needed.
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Do you have an incall?
I do not offer a permanent incall location, and as such would prefer to meet at your chosen location. If you would like, I can secure an incall with the provided addition $200 as a deposit.
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How should I communicate with you?
Victorian era style, as you would write to a good friend, as you would write to an employee -- just as long as it is not lewd, disrespectful, suggests illegal activities, and/or compromises my sense of safety we can communicate with each other.
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I only respond to those who have taken the steps, or are inquiring about the steps to secure an appointment.
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Who do you see?
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Are you open to meeting with older individuals?
By older you mean 50 and above? I definitely am. In fact it is a preference of mine. Come on in.
I'm shy / awkward / inexperienced.
Hello. I have no problem taking the lead in this case. Articulate your concerns and we can work from there.
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On Discretion and Verification
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Are you able to be discreet?
I am able to be discreet. Do you need an alias and/ or cover story throughout our communication? I can accommodate. You can specify in the booking form.
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Are you worried about my presence garnering attention? Not to worry, I consider my form a gift in this sense. "Why is this Black, 6ft tall, graceful being in this neighborhood / lobby / elevator?" the bystanders will ask. They will continue to wonder. They'll be too amazed and distracted to think the escort route. Or they might be busy thinking about themselves.
You are in safe hands.
If ever you feel your discretion and privacy is compromised, feel free to cut ties.
I need a bit more protection than that...
Are you thinking along the lines of a non-disclosure agreement? Okay. After you have been vetted, send it my way to be reviewed. After it has been reviewed, we can set up a date to go over it together. Please cover any fees (lawyer, my going rates) relating to this.
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Do you accept references as verification?
I do not accept them as a sole source of verification, but feel free to add them to you verification profile!
Make sure to ask each respective provider for permission before providing them as further verification.
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Deposits, Cancellation, and Latenesses
Do you have a deposit policy?
Yes I do. For dates more than three (3) hours, a 40% deposit of our time package consideration will have to be made to secure our date. It is non-refundable unless it is I who cancels our date.
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How do I provide the deposit?
I accept my deposits though the Cash App, Venmo (preferred), Google Wallet, and in person (for longer arrangements), up to the day before our date.
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I provide my deposit information after you have been screened!
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What is your cancellation policy?
Life situations will affect our availability to make appointments. That is okay. If a cancellation on your part is to occur, the 40% deposit will be kept to secure another appointment time. This appointment must be made within the next 3 months of the original appointment date.
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If a second cancellation - without a prior 48 hour notice - for the same booking is to occur, you will be required to put a 100% deposit to secure a date.
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For dates 2 hours or less, and without adequate notification that you will be late, an automatic cancellation occurs when you are 30 min late.
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A cancellation on my part, and I shall give you back the deposit. That is, unless, you would like for that deposit to secure another appointment.
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On latenesses
On the other hand, if you project that you will be late, and inform me before our appointment time, I will give a grace period of 15 minutes from when our date starts. After the 15 minutes, our date will have officially started.
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Miscellaneous
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Do you accept gifts?
I love gifts. I do not expect them at all, but yes, I am a shameless gift lover. Especially of considerate ones. May I offer some suggestions?
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I love leather goods, fresh scents, and attractive utilitarian pieces. I'd love to see your interpretation of these.
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Do you accept reviews?
If you would like to give, I will gladly accept testimonials and suggestions through my email. I don't care for review culture, as it does not add anything to my ability to service you. It is a bit distracting in fact. I do have TVG (The Verification Guide) profile, here.
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I'm still hesitant...
That is okay. I encourage all to follow their own timeline. That extends to you. Hopefully I'll still be providing by the time that you are ready, eager to put a smile on your face.
Now that we've cleared all that...
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